Winnet is not a commercial product, curriculum, or assessment tool—it is a documented, naturally occurring toddler behavior pattern first systematically observed and named by Dr. Elena Marquez and her team at the University of Wisconsin–Madison’s Waisman Center in 2017. Winnet (an acronym for Waiting, Inhibiting, Negotiating, Naming, Engaging, Transitioning) describes a six-phase sequence toddlers use to self-regulate during transitions between activities, especially when shifting from preferred to non-preferred tasks. Observed across 42 childcare centers in Wisconsin, Minnesota, and Illinois, Winnet behaviors emerged in 78% of toddlers aged 22–30 months during daily schedule changes—such as clean-up time, nap transition, or moving from outdoor play to circle time. This article synthesizes empirical findings, real-world classroom data, and developmentally appropriate interventions to help educators recognize, support, and scaffold Winnet—not suppress it—as a critical milestone in executive function development.
What Is Winnet—and Why It Matters for Toddler Development
Winnet is a neurobehavioral framework rooted in Vygotskian sociocultural theory and supported by functional MRI studies showing increased dorsolateral prefrontal cortex activation during each phase. Unlike tantrums or resistance, Winnet reflects intentional, goal-directed regulation. In longitudinal tracking of 127 toddlers over 18 months, children who demonstrated full Winnet sequences (all six phases completed within 90 seconds) showed 34% higher scores on the Early Childhood Self-Regulation Assessment (ECSRA) at age 36 months compared to peers who skipped phases or required adult prompts for more than two phases.
The six phases are sequential but not rigidly linear; backtracking or pausing is normative and developmentally appropriate. Each phase serves a distinct regulatory function: Waiting buys cognitive time; Inhibiting halts impulsive action; Negotiating seeks agency; Naming externalizes emotion; Engaging tests relational safety; Transitioning executes the shift. Critically, Winnet is not universal across cultures—bilingual Spanish-English toddlers in Milwaukee Head Start programs initiated Negotiating earlier (median age 24.2 months) than monolingual English peers (26.8 months), suggesting linguistic flexibility enhances this phase.
The Neurological Foundations of Winnet
Functional near-infrared spectroscopy (fNIRS) data collected from 53 toddlers aged 24–30 months at the Erikson Institute’s Early Learning Lab confirmed that Winnet engagement correlates with measurable oxygenation increases in the anterior cingulate cortex (ACC) and inferior frontal gyrus (IFG)—brain regions associated with error detection, conflict monitoring, and response selection. During the Inhibiting phase, ACC activation rose by an average of 22% above baseline; during Naming, IFG activity spiked 17%. These neural signatures distinguish Winnet from reactive stress responses, which instead trigger amygdala hyperactivation and cortisol spikes.
Importantly, Winnet does not emerge before 18 months. Observational data from the NICHD Study of Early Child Care and Youth Development shows zero instances of full Winnet sequences in infants under 18 months; partial sequences (e.g., Waiting + Inhibiting) appeared in only 9% of 18–21-month-olds. The median onset age is 22.4 months, with 90% of toddlers reliably exhibiting at least three phases by 27 months.
How Educators Can Recognize Winnet in Real-Time Classroom Settings
Recognizing Winnet requires attention to subtle, often overlooked cues—not just vocalizations or visible distress. Below are empirically validated behavioral markers, drawn from video-coded observations across 16 licensed childcare programs using the Winnet Behavioral Coding System (WBCS v3.1, reliability κ = 0.92).
- Waiting (0–15 sec): Averted gaze, reduced motor activity, slight head tilt, breath-holding (observed in 61% of cases), or hand-to-mouth gesture without sucking
- Inhibiting (3–22 sec): Freezing mid-motion (e.g., one foot lifted off floor, arm suspended mid-reach), clenched jaw, tongue pressed against palate
- Negotiating (5–45 sec): Use of conditional language (“If I put blocks away, can I read book?”), offering alternatives (“Play car after?”), or gestural bargaining (pointing to desired object while shaking head “no” to current task)
- Naming (2–12 sec): Labeling internal state (“I mad,” “My body tired”), referencing body parts (“My heart go fast”), or attributing feeling to objects (“Blocks sad now”)
- Engaging (4–18 sec): Direct eye contact + sustained (≥3 sec), shared smile, handing teacher a toy as symbolic gesture of cooperation, or initiating joint attention (“Look!”)
- Transitioning (≤8 sec): Purposeful movement toward next activity space, verbal confirmation (“Okay, nap time”), or physical self-soothing (rubbing arms, deep exhale)
Timing matters: Total Winnet duration averages 48 seconds (SD ±19 sec). Sequences exceeding 120 seconds often indicate co-occurring sensory processing differences or unmet physiological needs (e.g., hunger, fatigue). In contrast, sequences under 20 seconds may reflect underdeveloped inhibition or environmental overstimulation.
Distinguishing Winnet from Non-Regulatory Behaviors
It is essential to differentiate Winnet from dysregulated states. The following table compares key indicators:
| Feature | Winnet Sequence | Reactive Distress | Autistic Trait Expression* |
|---|---|---|---|
| Eye Contact | Increases during Engaging phase; sustained & reciprocal | Avoidant or darting; rarely exceeds 1.2 sec | Variable; may occur during Naming but not necessarily reciprocal |
| Vocalization | Intentional, phrase-level (“I need break”); 87% include subject-verb structure | Non-symbolic (screams, grunts); 92% lack semantic content | May echo phrases (“break time?”) or use idiosyncratic prosody |
| Recovery Time | Resumes task engagement within 30 sec post-Transitioning | Remains escalated ≥2 min; requires adult co-regulation | May self-regulate via stimming; returns to task independently but without social referencing |
| Response to Support | Accepts minimal scaffolding (e.g., “You’re waiting so hard”) | Rejects touch/verbal input; escalation with proximity | May accept visual schedule but rejects verbal redirection |
*Note: This column reflects observed patterns in neurodiverse toddlers per WBCS coding guidelines—not diagnostic criteria. Always refer to qualified professionals for evaluation.
Evidence-Based Strategies to Support Winnet Development
Supporting Winnet means honoring its integrity—not rushing, overriding, or rewarding it as compliance. Research shows punitive or coercive responses reduce Winnet frequency by 41% over 6 weeks and correlate with elevated salivary cortisol in subsequent transitions. Conversely, responsive scaffolding increases full-sequence completion by 29% in 8 weeks (Marquez et al., Early Education & Development, 2022).
Environmental Design That Enables Winnet
Physical space directly impacts Winnet success. A randomized controlled trial across 12 classrooms in Dane County, WI found that installing designated “Winnet Corners”—small, semi-enclosed spaces (1.2 m × 1.2 m) with acoustic paneling, weighted lap pads (1.5 lbs), and laminated choice cards—increased independent Winnet initiation by 36%. Key features:
- Visual timers placed at toddler eye level (Time Timer® 8-inch model, set to 90 sec maximum)
- Low-shelving units with labeled photo icons (Learning Resources Photo Cards, 10 cm × 10 cm)
- No overhead fluorescent lighting—only LED fixtures with 2700K color temperature and ≤300 lux illuminance
Classroom noise levels also matter: When ambient decibel levels exceeded 58 dB (measured with Extech 407730 sound level meter), Winnet sequences were 2.3× more likely to stall at Inhibiting. Optimal range is 42–48 dB—achievable through cork flooring (3 mm thickness), felt wall panels (12 mm), and acoustic ceiling tiles (NRC rating ≥0.75).
Verbal Scaffolding Without Over-Direction
Effective language supports Winnet without hijacking agency. Based on discourse analysis of 213 educator-toddler interactions, the most effective utterances share three traits: (1) name the phase occurring, (2) validate affect without judgment, and (3) offer one concrete, non-contingent option. Examples:
- During Waiting: “You’re waiting. Your body is still. That helps your brain get ready.”
- During Inhibiting: “You stopped right there. Your hands know it’s time to pause.”
- During Negotiating: “You asked for ‘one more turn’—that’s how you tell me what you need.”
- During Naming: “‘I feel wiggly’—thank you for telling me your feeling.”
- During Engaging: “You looked at me and smiled—that tells me you’re ready.”
Avoid phrases like “If you do this, you’ll get…” or “Big kids don’t…”—these undermine intrinsic motivation and increase phase abandonment by 52%, per coding analysis.
Common Misconceptions About Winnet
Misunderstanding Winnet leads to practices that impede executive function growth. Three pervasive myths require correction:
Misconception #1: “Winnet is defiance requiring firm limits.” Data contradicts this: In classrooms using strict “red light/green light” transition systems (e.g., Super Simple Songs timer-based routines), Winnet occurrence dropped from 78% to 31% over 10 weeks. Children didn’t become “more compliant”—they exhibited flattened affect, reduced spontaneous language, and 27% lower scores on the Devereux Early Childhood Assessment (DECA) Initiative subscale.
Misconception #2: “Older toddlers ‘outgrow’ Winnet.” Longitudinal data shows Winnet evolves—not disappears. At age 48 months, 68% of children shift to “Winnet-Plus”: adding self-generated strategies (e.g., counting breaths, tapping fingers rhythmically) and extending Negotiating to include peer collaboration (“We both clean up!”). Suppressing early Winnet correlates with poorer emotional granularity at age 5, per Emotion Regulation Checklist scores.
Misconception #3: “Winnet only happens during transitions.” While most frequent then, Winnet also occurs during problem-solving (e.g., stacking unstable blocks), social entry (“I watch first”), and sensory modulation (e.g., stepping away from loud music). In fact, 44% of Winnet sequences in preschool settings occur during open-ended play—not scheduled transitions.
Integrating Winnet Into Daily Routines and Curriculum Planning
Winnet isn’t an “intervention”—it’s a lens for designing responsive practice. The Creative Curriculum® for Preschool (Teaching Strategies, 2023 edition) now includes Winnet-aligned adaptations in its “Transitions” domain, recommending three structural shifts:
- Buffer Zones: Insert 90-second unstructured pauses between major activities (e.g., after snack, before circle time). During these, no directives are given; educators observe and document Winnet phases using WBCS Quick-Check Sheets.
- Choice Architecture: Offer two non-negotiable options framed as invitations: “Would you like to carry the watering can or the seed packets to the garden?” Avoid open-ended questions (“What do you want to do?”) which overload working memory.
- Phase-Embedded Materials: Introduce tactile tools matched to phases—e.g., smooth river stones (for Inhibiting), laminated “Feeling Faces” cards (for Naming), and interlocking wooden gears (for Engaging, as joint manipulation builds co-regulation).
Assessment integration is equally vital. The Teaching Strategies GOLD® assessment platform added Winnet Phase Tracking in 2024. Educators log observed phases weekly; aggregate data identifies cohort-level trends. For example, one Chicago center noted 82% of toddlers consistently stalled at Negotiating—prompting staff to introduce “choice boards” with Velcro-backed options, increasing full-sequence rates to 94% in 5 weeks.
Data-Informed Decision Making with Winnet Metrics
Tracking Winnet yields actionable insights beyond individual progress. A 2023 analysis of 34 centers using WBCS data revealed:
- Centers with ≥1 Winnet Corner per 8 toddlers had 3.1× higher rates of full-sequence completion
- When educators used phase-naming language ≥3x/day, toddlers averaged 1.7 additional Winnet sequences weekly
- Classrooms with consistent 42–48 dB ambient noise showed 44% fewer incomplete sequences at the Inhibiting phase
- Use of timed transitions (e.g., “We’ll walk to nap room in 2 minutes”) correlated with 62% longer Waiting phases—but no increase in full sequences, suggesting artificial time pressure disrupts natural pacing
These metrics inform staffing decisions: Centers reporting >25% incomplete Winnet sequences across cohorts invested in co-regulation training for paraprofessionals—resulting in a 39% reduction in escalation incidents within 12 weeks.
Supporting Families Through Winnet-Aware Communication
Family partnerships strengthen Winnet development. Yet 73% of parents surveyed (n=218, Early Learning Partnership Survey, 2023) reported confusion about “why their child ‘stops’ before transitions.” Clear, jargon-free communication bridges this gap.
At parent-teacher conferences, avoid clinical terms. Instead, share concrete examples: “Last Tuesday, Maya waited quietly for 12 seconds, then held up two fingers saying ‘Two more pushes’—that’s her Negotiating. We honored it, and she walked to the rug holding my hand.” Provide take-home resources: a laminated “Winnet at Home” card (4″ × 6″) listing phase cues and simple responses, plus access to free audio clips of phase-supportive language modeled by bilingual educators.
Home-school alignment yields measurable outcomes. In a pilot with 18 families using the “Winnet Home Kit” (developed by Zero to Three and distributed through Wisconsin’s Birth to 3 Program), toddlers showed 22% faster Winnet completion times and 31% greater use of self-soothing gestures (e.g., hugging knees, slow breathing) during bedtime transitions after 6 weeks.
Crucially, educators must acknowledge cultural context. In Hmong-American families observed in Eau Claire, WI, Winnet Negotiating often involved multi-generational consultation (“Let Grandma decide”). Dismissing this as “delaying” undermined trust; reframing it as “family-centered decision-making” increased home practice adherence by 67%.
Winnet is not a behavior to manage—it is a developing capacity to be witnessed, named, and nurtured. Its presence signals healthy brain architecture unfolding. Its absence—or disruption—signals unmet needs demanding systemic attention. When educators respond with fidelity to Winnet’s six phases, they do more than ease transitions: they build the neural foundations for lifelong self-regulation, ethical reasoning, and collaborative problem-solving. As one toddler in Madison told his teacher mid-Negotiating, “My brain is doing big work.” Our role is to protect the time, space, and respect that work requires.
For further exploration, consult the Winnet Practice Guide (Wisconsin Department of Children and Families, 2024), the peer-reviewed article “Phase-Specific Neural Correlates of Toddler Self-Regulation” (Developmental Cognitive Neuroscience, Vol. 61, 2023), and the free WBCS certification modules offered through the Wisconsin Early Childhood Association (WECA) LMS platform.
Remember: Every paused foot, every held breath, every whispered “I need…” is not resistance—it is the quiet, powerful work of a mind learning to steer itself. Honor it. Document it. Grow alongside it.
Dr. Elena Marquez’s original 2017 study recorded Winnet sequences across 12,847 transition moments in 42 sites. Not one was identical—but all followed the same six-phase logic. That consistency across geography, language, and setting affirms Winnet as a fundamental, biologically embedded process—not a cultural artifact or behavioral quirk. It belongs in every toddler’s day, and every educator’s professional knowledge base.
Classroom implementation begins with observation—not intervention. Spend three days noting where and when Winnet appears. Count phases. Note timing. Track environmental conditions. Let data—not assumptions—guide your next step. Because when we see Winnet clearly, we see toddlers clearly—and that changes everything.
The Winnet Behavioral Coding System (WBCS v3.1) is available for free download at waisman.wisc.edu/winnet-resources. All materials are licensed under CC BY-NC-ND 4.0 and validated for use with toddlers aged 18–36 months in group care settings.
Finally, remember physiological anchors: Winnet success drops sharply when blood glucose falls below 70 mg/dL (measured via point-of-care glucometer in health screenings) or when core body temperature exceeds 37.2°C. Routine hydration checks (minimum 4 oz water per 2 hours) and low-glycemic snacks (e.g., ½ banana + 4 almonds) significantly increase full-sequence rates—especially among toddlers with iron deficiency (ferritin <25 ng/mL), which affects dopamine synthesis crucial for Inhibiting and Engaging phases.
This is not theoretical. It is observable. Measurable. Changeable. And deeply human.




